Saving My Soul

I quit my job. After months of doubting my boss and his intentions toward my position, I finally quit when he told me I wasn't allowed to have an opinion and I shouldn't advocate for others. Thankfully my husband supported me and my coworkers were amazing in their love and appreciation. I know I am …

Capricorn

I am a Capricorn - I suffer from duality. I can't make up my mind. Do I want to live in Montana or the beach? Do I want to be famous, or live a solitary life? Do I want to lose weight or eat the cupcake? Do I stay or do I go? Do I …

Forty

Several years ago a friend told me that some women start to regret their lives when they turn forty.  They have a hard time accepting that this is it. So I wasn't surprised when it hit me. Don't get me wrong, I love my family, I have a nice home, and I a grateful for …

Let it go

Why can't I let it go? Why do I dwell on what other people say and do? Why do I start a blog to try to explain how other people are keeping me from being my true self? I know someone who doesn't care about what other people think and he seems pretty happy. However, …

Asperger’s Husband

My husband has Asperger's. It's one of the main reasons why I wanted to start this blog. He has no empathy and cannot be an emotional support for me, so I'm sharing my emotions with the world wide web. We didn't know he had Asperger's until after we were married and our son was about …